Why is it that a lot of macrobiotics treaties ignore
emotions and make you feel that they are only related
to food intake?
The roots of macrobiotics are Japanese and there is
a tendency in Japan to ignore emotions. Some people
with very strict macrobiotic diets are an emotional
mess and it leaves a lot of unanswered questions.
It is clear that food intake has a bearing on emotions
but there has to be more to it. Some of us
who have been doing macrobiotics for years know that
emotional balance improves with yoga, tai chi and
meditation.
A sound macrobiotic diet is supposed to bring emotional
balance but it does not always deal with
past wounds.
- Alvaro Daly from South America
Below you can read comments to Alvaro
concerns.
Simon Brown - Jacques
Mittler - Jampa Williams -
David Passas - Christina
Pirello
Leslie Ashburn - Larry
Kushi - Phiya Kushi - Bill
Tara - Meg Wolff - Susan
Marque
Alvaro although it
is true that food has an influence on your emotions
it is not the only source. From a nutritional perspective
a lack of minerals can increase the risk of depression
and blood sugar imbalances lead to mood swings. I also
think the living energy in whole living foods can change
our own emotional energy. Aside from this emotions are
also clearly effected by; patterns set up as a child,
the weather, seasons, moon cycle, genetics.
Emotional responses may be acquired from people we grew
up with. It is also suggested when we have an emotion
like anger we release a chemical and that over a period
of time our cell become addicted to that chemical resulting
from physical cravings to get angry again to release
that chemical.
I think these issues are not often discussed within
macrobiotics as they are not something we have a lot
of knowledge or experience in. Perhaps it is a case
of sticking to what we are best at. My advice would
be to seek other people or knowledge bases to help deal
with past wounds, whereas macrobiotics and the food
approach might be helpful if you just felt bad emotionally
for no obvious reason.
When talking about emotions something that I also think
has not had enough attention is our emotional attachments
to food. Because when growing up we develop very strong
attachments to certain foods, ice cream or chocolate
as a treat or reward, it is important to create new
positive emotional associations with the new foods.
For this reason it would help enormously to be feeling
really happy every time we eat healthily. I put on my
favourite music or watch a comedy DVD with my children
and eat with friends that make me laugh.
Within a surprisingly short time the associations get
transferred to the new foods. Sometimes macrobiotic
eating gets miserably serious with too much concentration
on chewing and trying to feel at peace.
- Simon G. Brown
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Alvaro's question is a very good one !
I think Ohsawa did not worry about emotional and psychological
matters. I suppose his teachings were intended for people
who don't have emotional problems. But nowadays, we
have to take them in account.
That is why I am trying to open the discussion on the
fact that we must work simultaneously on the three fields:
physical, emotional (and/or mental) and spiritual. This
is how I understand macrobiotics.
It is a fact that food has a bearing on emotions. Anyway,
without a psychological and a spiritual work, even a
macrobiotic diet cannot drive by itself to good results.
Thanks to Alvaro for her question.
- Jacques Mittler
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I totally agree with you if you do not love yourself,
love life and especially the life within you, then no
inner healing is possible.
- David Passas
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I think that it is more complicated than any one of
us is able to fathom, truly. I think that Alvaro
makes a good point, but I also think that in this particular
discussion, people have gotten quite
conceptual (a common problem in macrobiotics). We study
the ideas that nothing is separated
from anything else and yet we do it ourselves. We separate
food from emotion, say that we treat
one and not the other, etc.
Food is one component of healing. It is the foundation
upon which strength and vitality are built. Without
excellent fuel, how can we even consider handling our
emotional well-being? I certainly agree with
alvaro, that in my study experience, I have heard that
all can be handled with food
and for some that
may be true
but I also think that each of us has
a responsibility within our practice and teaching to
evolve ourselves, our theories and our teaching to reflect
what it is that people need
- Christina Pirello
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Hmmm... I agree that there is more to the picture than
just the food you cook and consume. The environment
at large is our food too. Along with the material world,
we have the non-material world and so everything around
us can be considered our nourishment. Even if a person
eats a healthy diet, what good is that if the person
is isolated, lonely, or cut off from others?
Health is holistic. Everything needs to be taken into
consideration and to look at the big picture.
What about the weather? Does that person live in a cold
climate? What time of year was that person born? These
things all influence us -- it's not a simple cut and
dried picture.
I agree that yoga, tai chi, etc. are useful to help
move energy blocks from the body. The practice slows
you down, keeps you mindful, and can teach you a lot
about yourself. But food IS really important in this
case.... What if you keep cleaning the rivers but people
keep polluting them? It doesn't matter how many times
you clean -- people have to stop throwing garbage in
the water.
Since I have been teaching in Hawaii, I notice people
ask about soy milk. They tell me they have switched
from putting milk on their cereal to using soymilk,
or from cow's milk yoghurt to soy-based yoghurt.
But what change has really been made here in terms
of the energetic properties? Has someone REALLY changed
their diet? Have they REALLY given up sugar, baked flour
products, diary, etc? I was taught by my instructors
in Japan that you have to completely 100% stop whatever
food is causing you problems for any discharge (emotional
and physical) to occur.
If you have even a little bit, it keeps those cells
in your body alive, feeding the same emotional
patterns, locking in past wounds.
Isn't it Christina Pirello who talks about one's culture,
food, and the influence of climate? I think William
Spear also talks about this... Compare Italians and
people from warmer climates who eat nightshades with
people in Asia who tend to have a saltier diet and colder
weather. Which is more overtly affectionate and possibly
more expressive (at least on the surface)?
Having lived in Japan, the culture is certainly different
than what I experienced living around South Americans.
But once I got to know people on an individual basis,
those I became friends with were deeply warm and compassionate,
and no less emotionally expressive than me. It all depends
on your perspective! So do people in Japan really ignore
emotions?
I'm curious about the macro people being referred to
who have serious emotional issues. Perhaps I haven't
met enough macrobiotic individuals from my own culture
to have a point of comparison and am still insulated
from this being in Hawaii where the macrobiotic community
is small? What I saw in Japan were people who were healing
from deep emotional wounds through changing their diets,
participating in community and a social network, and
who were actively speaking about their traumas in a
healing context.
My impression though is that there are long lasting
effects of deep trauma that can take a lifetime to unravel.
Can you compare that person who has these emotional
issues with the person he/she was before becoming macrobiotic?
Have there been improvements? If not, then the person's
diet/lifestyle must NOT be really balanced.
Strict does not imply balanced.
- Leslie Ashburn
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I agree that food is not everything. What one does with
the food - and your body - is also important. We cannot
assume that just because one eats "macrobiotic"
food that one will be healthy or live a fulfilling life.
If you also smoke cigarettes, do not get any activity,
and do not find time to enjoy nature and the company
of your friends, then that is a poor existence indeed.
- Larry Kushi
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Alvaro's concerns are not uncommon and have been echoed
through the years and there are books in the
past that offer advice that aren't food centered from
macrobiotic promoters like BIll Tara's book on Human
Behavior, Ron Koetzsch's book "Macrobiotics Beyond
Food." Other macorbiotic promoters offer courses
that deal with more emotional issues like Bill Spear
,Tom Monte, Evan Root and others. So really there is
no
shortage in macrobiotic offerings that deal with the
subject of emotions from standpoint other than food.
Exercise or an active life-style is essential in maintaining
good physical and emotional health and is always
included in macrobiotic recommendations. Physical movement
helps us to eliminate excesses much faster
(that we get from our food) which would otherwise stagnate
and then affect our moods and emotions.
Additionally Michio includes "singing a happy song"
in his recommendations as a way for people uplift their
moods.
One thing that Alvaro should do is not underestimate
the importance and power that food plays in the role
of emotions. There is more and more evidence linking
aggression, delinquency and criminal behavior to
dietary patterns. It is well known that elminating sugar
foods from children's diets make them more calm,
well-behaved and able to concentrate. At present, the
conventional way to treat emotional disorders
is primarily through drugs and chemicals substances.
If such chemicals are powerful enough to
alter emotions, why not food?
While changes in our diets can greatly effects the degree
of our emotional reactions to certain situations
(e.g. from mild upset to extreme outburst) it doesn't
necessarily determine WHY we react the way we do
(which inludes whether or not we choose to be wounded
or not by certain experiences) and that is more
due to social conditioning. To that end there is everything
from family upbringing, schooling, communities,
religion - basically our entire social world, that influences
that. How individuals find their "inner peace"
is entirely up to them because it is based solely on
their own past experiences and no one else and it
may take them their entire life to find.
A major source of emotional wounding stems from problems
in relationships and sexuality or a misunderstandingsbetween
masculine and feminine persons (be they straight or
gay). One person that offers clarification in that area
in a way that is also consistent with yin/yang principals
(although he does not call it that) is David Deida who
teaches the yoga of sexuality at place like the Omega
Institute and Kripalu Yoga Center.
His teachings stem from ancient Yogic principals as
represented by Shiva and Shakti. He has written several
books including the "Way Of The Superior Man"
that I recommend to both men and women interested in
exploring and finding solutions with masculine and feminine
issues. But in this area too, because it is fundamentally
tied to our biology, also is greatly impacted by what
we eat. By combining his analysis of the masculine and
feminine with the yin/yang principals of macrobiotics
one can see how changes in diet can influence those
issues either positively or negatively.
- Phiya Kushi
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Thanks for the Alvaro comment. The issue of the relationship
between emotions and food has been on the macrobiotic
agenda for decades. Many people who have observed the
macrobiotic community at work and play from the outside
bring it up.
The usual remarks are that we seem cool, aloof, or repressed,
humourless as a group. This is perhaps an unfair generalization
but it is interesting. Many of the people making these
remarks have respect for macrobiotic ideas and ideals
it is the people they find disturbing. It would be too
easy to simply reject these observations as the distorted
views of the unenlightened or
the physically ill. If it walks like a duck and looks
like a duck.
We know that diet has a huge influence on our physical
and emotional well being. As far as I'm concerned that
is an indisputable fact. It is also evident that there
are other collective factors that affect our emotional
life such as culture, family and environment. The relationship
of these other forces to the macrobiotic diet might
be an interesting discussion but I want to focus on
the perception that there is a particular or even peculiar
macrobiotic emotional manner.
Why do observers perceive this? It might be productive
to look at our ideas about food, our ideas about illness
and the culture those ideas have created.
The fundamentals of the macrobiotic approach to diet
would save countless lives, improve the well being of
billions of people and assist greatly in solving the
problem of world hunger if universally applied. These
benefits do not depend on strict adherence to any specific
dietary regimen.
Only the application of the "big ideas" of
whole grains as principle food, vegetable protein, locally
grown vegetables and the like are essential. A little
truth goes a long way but the devil is in the details.
Is it possible to be too concerned with what we eat?
If we proceed on the premise that everything we want
and need is supplied by food we can easily become myopic
and our growth stunted. This extreme focus may be needed
in the case of eating for a specific health goal but
not as a well-rounded way of life. If we really think
that we can chew our way through any problem or that
we can eat our way to emotional health or spiritual
enlightenment we are being lazy.
This is where the "macro" becomes "micro".
We might become expert eaters but we don't need our
unique human attributes to do that. This is definitely
a yang symptom, reflective of a desire to reduce everything
down to one neat, manageable, tidy package reflective
of narrow conceptual thinking but not of the wonderful
complexity of life.
Groups of people who conform to any belief system form
a culture. This includes macrobiotics too.
Codes of behaviour are fundamental in any culture these
behaviours are often in place to formalize
the culture, maintain orthodoxy and externalise the
teachings and beliefs. Just as in any culture macrobiotics
has certain rules of behaviour that are implicit or
explicit in macrobiotic teaching.
If displays of emotion are seen as "a discharge"
(a sign of physical or emotional imbalance), what kind
of behaviour is acceptable? Certainly the answer has
to be emotional reserve. If eating outside of rigid
guidelines is considered "binging " or if
fear is a dominant factor in food choices then certainly
we are
talking about repressive behaviour. It would be impossible
that these traits would not be reflected in
the emotional profile of the community.
One thing that may bother Alvaro and others is that
Macrobiotic philosophy is put forward as a total
way of life (a promise that may be unwise in any case)
and as yet it is not. Macrobiotic people shop
around for ways to carry out their desires beyond food
and that's a good thing too. The world is full
of wonderful teachings.
The macrobiotic focus has always been on how food affects
our health and the conclusions of that focus have been
generally good. Excursions into the broader world are
seldom seen by the macrobiotic orthodoxy as important.
Information generated, outside Asia in particular, is
seen as more of a condiment to the main course. What
we should eat?
The conceptual application by teachers of yin/yang to
comment on culture, history, mythology and the like
is interesting but often has little application to daily
life in quite the way that food choices and cooking
have. I am sure that the work of Tom Monte, Evan Root
and Bill Spear reflect their practice of macrobiotics.
I am also sure that many macrobiotic counsellors reccommed
other physical, emotional or spiritual exercises to
their clients. That is a long way from that work being
identified as an official part of a "macrobiotic"
way of life.
- Bill Tara
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If I only give people food and tell them to
chew they do not get as much benefit as when we dive in and
really help someone be the person that is who they desire
to be. The movie "The Secret" is becoming very popular
due to the one Universal principle that it teaches effects
a person's whole life.
This principle is the law of attraction and holding ones thoughts
on things that evoke a good feeling in them. How simple and
yet our cultural training is the exact opposite. It is work
to create new thought patterns just as it is work to learn
new ways of being with food. The rewards are stunning and
wonderful for those willing to play. I love coming up with
ways to make it all easier for people to create what they
desire. I believe that Ohsawa started with food since it is
tangible but did not deny the mind, exercise, and emotions.
Even Michio advertises "sing a happy song
every day" and become more happy, peaceful and loving.
What does a large life mean to you and what are you interpreting
macrobiotics to be? Not eveyone is adept at teaching about
emotions. I do a lot of that because it has always been of
interest to me. I was an actor and I have explored emotions
and human behavior and how it all relates to health and life.
I love what Bill Tara wrote because it is a
path, a journey this life and it is up to each person. Mind,
Body and Spirit are all addressed and this season of being
thankful (American Thanksgiving) and loving
and generous (Chanukah, Christmas, Kwanza and all the rest
of the winter holidays.) can become every day. One of the
best things I learned from macrobiotics is to be grateful
and enjoy the moments.
Learn, grow and create your life to be everything you desire
and I am privilaged to be a guide for some and a student always.
Susan Marque
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I liked hearing everyones opinions. This is
my opinion:I am in agreement with the fact that the food is
only the beginning of the healing, I couldn't have healed
without it. In my experience when my physiology improved,
so did my emotions to a certain extent. After a few years
I became more in touch with my feelings and issues, and believe
me we all have them! I think that when I took away the sugar
and dairy and foods that insulated me from pain, guilt, fear,
etc., they were right in front of my face--to deal with in
a different way, instead of numbing out with food.
So, I believe that food can take you a long
way in the direction of healing, to me the foundation, but
if I didn't' change patterns of behavior that no longer worked
for me I wouldn't have continued in the direction of moving
towards health. It's hard work, but necessary, and gets easier
as I embrace change without fear. When I realized that the
patterns of behavior were not working I looked forward to
the challenges to learn and grow, and still do. I think that
these issues are emotional and spiritual.
I think that at the Kushi Institute the food does need to
be stressed(somebody has to tow the line),and they do incredibly
well with that. But ,I also think that to ignore or even dismiss
the other things that make us ill is like building a the foundation
of a house(the food) and then sending the work crew home,
thinking that we can live in the basement with a tarp over
it for the roof. How long can you stay happy repressing your
emotions? Not to deal with them would be another form of distraction.
Why not deal with the emotions that are organic to life? Continue
building on the foundation until you have created a beautiful
home that you can live the life you were meant to live in.
I also feel that not everyone at the KI feels that food is
all you need, or everyone in Macrobiotics. But I also feel
that the food is very important and it's also the other way
around as well. I couldn't go back to eating any old thing
and say I'm working on the emotions and spiritual pieces,
so I can eat whatever I want. It can't be used as an excuse.
Healing is multifaceted in my experience.
Meg Wolff
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May I add another response to Alvaro's comments? I found
his words very moving, because in my journey into macrobiotics
I have found people who were wonderfully empathic, intuitive,
compassionate and spiritually vibrant, such as counselors
David Snieckus and William Spear in New England, and yet
also have found others who seemed to be emotionally frozen,
and whose very personalities make it difficult for their knowledge
to be of help to others - and whose practice of macrobiotics
does not seem to have brought them any joy.
The spectrum of emotional health seems to me to be as broad
among our mac population is it is in the general population.
For me, the most profound spiritual inspiration in terms of
macrobiotic potential has
been Jessica Porter and her book, "The Hip Chick's Guide
to Macrobiotics".
I think Jessica's book, and the spirit with with which she
wrote it, really stand as a charming beacon for the kind of
integration of spiritual and physical wholeness of which we
are all capable. The lovingkindness,
the humor, and the clarity of her approach are so engaging
that one learns and grows through macrobiotic principles without
feeling the chill of the perhaps too extreme emotional detachment
that does exist in some macrobiotic circles.
Jessica, aside from being a wonderful writer and chef, is
also a hypnotherapist, and her practices integrates most beautifully
a macrobiotic sensibility. Having gone to her as a client
coping both with breast
cancer as well as the trauma of being a survivor of domestic
violence, I can testify that this kind of synergy is very
powerful and healing.
For me, working with Jessica has been the quantum leap I
needed for healing at the deepest level. I believe that anyone
who has suffered any kind of trauma or serious illness has
a need and a right to find the healing that is called for
by their own souls, and whether this healing is helped by
T'ai Chi
or by becoming more active in one's own religion, or through
therapy, or through whatever path one needs, then it is vital
to seek out these channels.
Part of my own healing has been to actively seek out other
macrobiotic practitioners, through this very newsletter, and
that, too, has been a source of great joy. It is difficult
to grow spiritually in isolation, and
it is wonderful to have community. Thank you for this terrific
community conversation!
-Jampa Williams
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